I feel like I have so much stuff to get done. So I decided to write in my blog since that is not one of the things I need to get done. I know it makes no sense, but my cat is sleeping on my stomach (one of his favorite spot sto take a nap) and so I really am incapacitated. Anyone who owns a (friendly) cat knows what I mean. Disturbing him is out of the question. I guess I should be thankful I can still type.
So what is really going on in my life?
I finally finished the project I was working on at work today. It is a Java progem that monitors/tests websites to make sure they are functioning properly. I sent it in for 'review' today. It is really cool. So now I am continuing to work on the company website, and I am learning a great deal about how to make them look snazzy. The site currently on the web was done by a different company, and it is my job to modify, update, and improve it. www.optivel.com is the site but my changes aren't there yet.
OK... so here's the real scoop. I turn 26 in a few days. I never thought I would still be single at 26, but it sure is looking like I wil be :) barring any last minute shotgun weddings to a girl I haven't met yet who might fall instantly in love with me.
I have been thinking about my approach to females recently (for about the last 12 years or so). I have recently begun attempting to have an attitude that girls want a guy to chase them. If I were a girl I would probably be in the "if he doesn't think I'm worth chasing, then he doesn't really want me" camp. This poses a problem, however. How do I know when girls want to be chased, and are running away from me to encourage me to run after them (figuratively speaking), or when they are genuinely not interested, and I am just irritating them by chasing them around? Maybe there is no way to tell the difference without actually irritating people, and they eventually tell you to take a hike. I know I have chased with success in the past, and I have had good relationships, though the girls I've dated have mostly married the very next guy they dated - so I guess I'm good at getting them ready :-P Maybe I am just grouchy because I am single. I shouldn't complain. It isn't meant to be easy... just worth it. Gosh I hope so ;)
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OOHHH! My gosh ... I so didn't understand why my comments weren't being posted and I SO knew I wrote like a few ... have you seriously been getting those in your email? dang joe! I was wondering why it kept asking for an email addy. gosh! Anyway, I hear ya shotgun wedding. I'm planning mine for July. Don't know to who yet, but yeah, it's in the works.
Yes it emailed the last one you wrote to me so I could approve or disapprove it. I had turned on "comment moderation" just to see what it was like. But I think I'll turn it off now. :)
Why don't you just ask these girls, "Hey, does it bother you when I chase you around, or what?"
I'm sure they would be much more interested in a guy who is interested in how they feel about things, and honest... than a guy who does whatever he wants, and never bothers to ask for their input.
Boy, am I an opinionated soul, or what? (Just ask fhyrefligh).
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